職場中除了完成工作目標之外,人際經營也是重要的一環;當發現友好的同事看起來心情低落時,適時給予關心問候,也能表達友善的同事情誼。
然而,工作上的支援,只要在能力範圍內的協助都不在話下,但當同事遇到感情失意時,才是最讓人不知該如何表達適切的安慰,因此提供對方需要的關心,才是真正的關心!
[學習目標]: 學習使用英文安慰剛失戀的人等的相關的字詞
Practice Target: Learn some useful expressions about how to comfort someone who just broke up.
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Dialogue: (對話)
Hope: | How’s your day, Joey? |
Joey: | Pretty good. How about you, Hope? |
Hope: | Not bad. Hey, Joey. I just had a meeting with Ms. Lee. She is satisfied with our proposal. |
Joey: | 真的嗎? That’s great to hear! |
Hope: | Hey, Joey, did you notice that Bella seems a bit off today. She hardly said anything during the meeting. |
Joey: | A bit off? 她看起來心不在焉嗎? 關機嗎? |
Hope: | Yes. It means she looks upset and distracted – not her usual cheerful self. |
Joey: | 就是有些不對勁,對嗎? |
Hope: | Uh huh. |
Joey: | Well, she just broke up with her boyfriend. That’s why she took yesterday off. |
Hope: | Oh, no, poor Bella. She must be feeling really down. |
Joey: | Yeah. I was thinking about how we could help her go through this and feel better. We don’t want to say the wrong thing and make her feel worse. |
Hope: | You are right. It’s tricky. Maybe the best thing we can do is just be there for her and listen if she wants to talk. |
Joey: | Exactly. That’s what I think. |
Hope: | For now, I think we should give her some space. It’s important not to push her. |
Joey: | She really seems different today. You know, I talked to her this morning, and she just said, “I’m fine,” but I could tell she is not. That’s why I am worried. |
Hope: | Sometimes people just need time to process their feelings. I mean if I were her, I would want people to leave me alone for a while. |
Joey: | I know we shouldn’t say things like, “Don’t be sad!” or “You will find someone better.” |
Hope: | Definitely not. Those aren’t helpful. |
Joey: | How about leaving a note or a card says something like, “I am here for you,” or “I know this is really hard for you?” |
Hope: | That’s a nice idea. Offering support is a good start. We shouldn’t try criticize her ex or the relationship because we are not in her place. |
Joey: | True. After all, we don’t know the whole story. So, what do you think if we invite her to dinner tonight or suggest a walk in a park? |
Hope: | Well, if she needs distractions, they are good options to try. But it all depends on whether she is ready to open up. |
Joey: | I see. When she is ready, we can be there to listen and support her. |
Hope: | And if she feels like crying, we’ve got our shoulders for her. |
Joey: | So, what can we do now to show her we care? |
Hope: | Do nothing! For now, we just need to keep an eye on her until she is ready to talk. |
Joey: | That sounds like a good plan. I think Bella is strong and she just needs time to 治療傷疤. |
Hope: | Heal her wounds. |
Joey: | Yes, heal her wounds. Bella just needs time to heal her wounds and she will recover in time. |
Hope: | Exactly. Let’s give her some more space and be patient and supportive. |
Joey: | Be patient is 有耐心 and be supportive is to support 她嗎? |
Hope: | Yes, be supportive means showing encouragement and care. |
Joey: | Got it. Be supportive means鼓勵的;支持的意思. |
Hope: | That’s right. |
Joey: | I think Bella is lucky to have friends like us! |
Hope: | Let’s make sure she feels our support, even if we don’t say much right now. |
Joey: | Okay. Sometimes 安靜地陪伴是最好的安慰! |
Hope: | You can say that again. Being quiet is the best comfort! |
Joey: | Yes. Being quiet is the best comfort! |
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Vocabulary(單字)
1.a bit off 不太對勁
2.distracted adj. 漫不經心的;心不在焉的
3.distraction n. 分散注意力的事
4.be not our place n. 並非我們該做的
5.criticize v. 批評
6.ex 前任
7.relationship 一段關係
8.supportive adj. 鼓勵的